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Have you ever heard the saying “You’ll catch more flies with honey”? Same can be said for the dating game in my opinion. I’ve found over my several years here the people that make the effort are the ones who reap the reward and make friends. So here are my tried and true tips for how you can meet new online friends and possibly find your next sex buddy.

1- Empty profiles don’t attract attention

When you send someone a message often the first place they look is your profile. If you want to get to know someone your profile is going to give them quick information on whether you are the type of person they are interested in, and whether you have things in common to talk about. If someone clicks on your profile and it is empty, or there is a single photo but nothing else there is nothing to gain their interest.

Tips

• Add some photos that help describe you, for example that motorbike you love riding or a clear photo of yourself doing something you enjoy.

• Use one of the pin boards on your profile to pin photos on the site that will show others what you are interested in sexually. Do you have a foot fetish, into latex, interest in bondage? You can communicate this easily to other members by using your pin boards and in the process create conversation starters.

2- Be flirty, not crude

Everyone knows first impressions are important, I don’t need to tell you that. How you speak to someone of interest on an adult dating site should be no different from approaching someone in your local bar. What you choose to say is going to create an impression of what kind of person you are.

Watch your manners and know who you are speaking to. Don’t expect someone to want to fuck you before you have cemented a level of trust. Yes, this is adult dating but our members are average every day people not whores and sluts.

Tips

• Keep it complimentary. Find something to be positive about, encourage and praise. Let the person you are contacting know clearly what made you interested in being their friend

• Don’t treat people disrespectfully, speak to others as you would expect to be spoken to. Don’t ask someone to fuck you before you’ve had the manners to exchange names.

3- Create a friendship circle

People who have remained happily online as members for a long period have one thing in common, they have created friendship circles and mix among groups of mutual friends both male and friend regardless of their sexual orientation. They interact through daily status’, commenting on each other’s content and remaining publicly active on our site.

Another bonus to this is that long term members are far less likely to have fake members as friends. It’s a good way to project yourself among people who are online for the same reasons as you.

Tips

• Don’t limit yourself to only sending private messages, become active publicly through commenting and publishing daily content to your profile.

• Ask your existing friends to introduce you to others, or take a look at their friend’s lists to introduce yourself.

Fuck buddies don't just magically appear because you purchase a membership, relationships take time and effort; but that time and effort doesn't have to be complicated and no doubt is lots more fun when visually there is lots of sexy photos to look at. So relax, be yourself and take the time to get to know people, so you too can be blogging about the kinky time you had with another member last weekend.

with love, Kinky B.